* Changed the logic of how we inform the client about dead buddies. Instead of pushi...

* Changed the logic of how we inform the client about dead buddies.  Instead of pushing a dead buddy update at login, we push it immediately following any roster query requested by the client.  I discovered that some clients don't bother to query the roster if an unsolicited update is recived.  This is working more reliably now.  However, I'm not getting any asynchronous updates; must check this...