*fix numerous regressions that I let slip:

*fix numerous regressions that I let slip:
* 'customize this' now below 'log off' in iconbar
* fix embedded wholist in iconbar appearing if not enabled
* make drag and drop menu translucent, with no list padding
* enable chat button again
* no link colors for 'customize this'
* try to properly detect the presence/lack of Firebug/Safari/IE8 developer console (console.log). If you see any console.log missing errors and don't have Firebug installed, please tell me